March 2011
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fuzzymemoirs asked: ((askbox did a weird thing, so sorry if I'm sending this twice))

I totally appreciate your take.

I guess more of what I meant about the money thing was less what you pointed to, in that there is a generic Hollywood awkwardness about handling money-for-sex encounters, and more in that Soderbergh seems able to handle money transactions rather fluidly in his other...
Mar 1st
lardhat asked: I've been living in Spain for several years and it's still shocking how Spanish men just go to prostitutes and then talk about it to their friends. It seems to be something that a large percentage of Spanish men have done at one time or the other.

Can I ask what kind of men use the services of a prostitute in the US? Is there a profile? And furthermore, do they feel good...
Mar 1st
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February 2011
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fuzzymemoirs asked: I wonder if you've seen (and if you have, how you feel about) the Girlfriend Experience. It stars Sasha Grey and Steven Soderbergh directed it. (I've seen it a few times and have a different reaction each time.)

The reason I ask was because I was thinking about it's purported subtext of being about the dawn of the recession through the eyes of Sasha Grey's...
Feb 28th
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HOLD UP.
Have any of you watched “An Inside Job”? It’s a film about the financial disaster, and it’s making me really sad and angry at the same time. As a sex worker I think we get a very intimate look into these things…not in a direct way, but I think we end up spending time with people who are directly affected and eventually we feel it too. For instance: 2006...
Feb 28th
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Feb 28th
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When the fuck did James Van Der Beek get sexy?
garlandgrey: If He Keeps Winking At Me He Is Going To Get Fucked.
Feb 27th
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The thing that sucks about getting reblogged by a...
garlandgrey: ginger-gal: Now I have to deal with all the notifications from anti-choicers getting all pissy because I don’t think a fetus is automatically a magical fucking unicorn sparkle present. If a fetus is in my uterus and it is desperately unwanted, then yes, it is like a disease to me. A disease I will do everything I can to get rid of. I SAID GOOD DAY, SIR. “magical fucking...
Feb 27th
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MORE QUESTIONS! I’ve got nothing but time today.
Feb 25th
pickupyourlaces asked: save money.
i notice the more i know about how much i'm spending the easier it is for me to not spend it.
like instead of buying burgerking or fastfood for breakfast, i can spend the same or less on instant oatmeal and fresh fruit. and if you put away the difference of what you're not spending you'll start saving up really quickly
Feb 24th
condorsanonymous asked: Actually, season five of American Dad has to be my favorite, I don't know why, but I can't stand Family Guy, and American Dad seems smarter and funnier. Anyway, I'm pretty sure I've said you are super cool before, and I'm an Aries too! Aries sign is best sign. Haha. Also, you've mentioned that you've been able to separate sex and emotion, I've been trying to...
Feb 24th
dtronn asked: curious to know your thoughts about this:
http://www.wired.com/magazine/2011/01/ff_sextrade/2/
Feb 24th
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icicleman-deactivated20110701-d asked: Do you think FTM(s) and MTF(s) have a viable market in the sex industry?
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moneypennywaitress asked: I am rebellious and obstinate and defiant. And an Aries. So whenever someone tells me that I shouldn't do something? haha. I learn by doing, not by what people tell me. I've always been stubborn like that. So I can assure you, if I decide to do it, I will do it. :) I'm not getting any younger..

<3
Feb 24th
Keep The Questions Flowing!
because I like answering them, and they’re the only thing keeping me from watching the entire 5th season of American Dad. Ask Me Anything.
Feb 24th
moneypennywaitress asked: I agree. Maybe theres a difference in all sex work. I don't know. I've been told I could be a Dom, and I have been interested in it, as well as dancing, and such. But I have been discouraged. I always thought I could do it, simply because I have that same "disconnect" you do. It's a job. Not my personal life. And I'm pretty aggressive and I have a dominant...
Feb 24th
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moneypennywaitress asked: I know what you mean. Thanks for answering.

Also, in your line of work, have you found that it has made you lose that playful naivete that we all once had before about sex? sex work has always been fascinating and alluring to me, and I have considered getting into it for some time, only to be discouraged. That it "is not a good life," and there seems to be a loss of...
Feb 24th
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I’ve been considering getting a gun. Not for work, because so far I’ve not ever felt so threatened that I would need to pull a heater on someone. I want one for my regular life. Being a woman and insisting that you should be regarded as a human being can be too much for some people to handle without wanting to hurt you. An experience I’ve had that made me wish I had a gun is: ...
Feb 24th
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Today
I don’t have anything to do today, so let’s talk! Send questions, I will answer them as promptly as possible…
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moneypennywaitress asked: you said in an earlier comment, about how you're "pretty disconnected [from sex] aside from it feeling good."

What was it that caused the disconnect?
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Feb 21st
veiledisis asked: I just read your post about toxic tampons and your seemingly hesitant decision to start using a cup. So I have to tell you: The cup is absolutely amazing. I know that us Divas sound a little overly fanatic, but honestly using one has made me so much more capable of loving my body. You can often leave it in longer than a tampon, you feel fully clean and confident that your body is disposing of what...
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Feb 20th
notafilmnoirheroine asked: I know I don't even know you, but I wanted to tell you that I think you've become one of my personal heroines. You've so fearless and eloquent, and completely able to say exactly what needs to be said. I admire you tons.
Feb 20th
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Well, Since We're Here
Why Not Ask A Question?
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Feb 19th
pickupyourlaces asked: thank you for asking, and i do hate that society puts any woman who is sexually empowered and forward down as deviant or wrong.
i found a post you made somewhere else and i was like, lemme follow this woman, and you are far above what i expected. interesting and witty honest and open. i wasnt sure what to expect, but i sure didnt think you would be open.
and being productive in...
Feb 19th
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nakedlunchdolls-deactivated2012 asked: Just wanted to say that I love your blog. You're one of too few women on tumblr who post things that are actually useful and interesting. Your posts are a welcome refreshment from the sea of cleavage and nonsense that clutters my dashboard most times. so Thank You!!!
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